If I had a dollar every time someone said to me women spectators must be so much worse than men in the stripping world, I'd be a very rich man. The truth is the opposite. It pains me to write this but its simple; there is a big double standard when it comes to male vs female strippers. While female strippers are still seen as taboo and wildy sexual, male strippers are more for a sense of risqué entertainment, and pure fun.
At a bucks or stag party, its pretty simple; the dirtier the better. Guys just want to see tits, ass and their best friend dominated by a sexy woman. I have met some amazing girls with big dreams while working in this industry, and I've got to say they are some of the bravest people I've met. Some of these girls have gone on to accomplish big things, and deserve respect. Yes they get paid a lot of money to do what they do, but you'd be surprised with what they have to put up with in return. The best of them just laugh to themselves, brush it off, and think about their future. Quite simply, its incredibly sexual.
Woman at a hens party on the other hand, now thats another story. Woman just want to laugh with their friends, and enjoy some light hearted entertainment, all while celebrating the hen. Yes the entertainment should be nice to look at with his shirt off, but at the end of the day, the group just want to giggle like crazy. A bad male stripper will take himself too seriously, grind up on the girls and shake his penis in their face. I haven’t met a group of girls yet who has asked me to do this. A good male stripper will take the piss out of himself as much as the situation, have a good combination of moves and cheekiness, and make the girls laugh. Yes the moves are sexual, but in a very different league to what most female strippers do. Also, the only ones who try to cop a feel are the ‘older’ girls attending the party. Before I can tell grandma to stop being so handsy, the rest of the girls at the hen party have already slapped her wrist and said ‘that’s not allowed nanna!’ Its simple, girls just want to have fun.